Gamers: Don't Be Like this Misogynistic Asshole, Aris Bakhtanians

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  • Shawn Zipay
    Managing Communities 24/7
    • Apr 2003
    • 69064

    #1

    Gamers: Don't Be Like this Misogynistic Asshole, Aris Bakhtanians

    Cross Assault was a week long fighting game reality show backed by Capcom that pitted Street Fighter players against Tekken players. During the event comments were made from a coach for the Tekken team in which he stated that "sexual harassment is part of (the) culture." This remark was in response to the hosts of the event stating how the community in StarCraft II is far more inviting than the fighting game community. Naturally, this snowballed into the Internet collective debating the remarks and lambasting the coach, Aris Bakhtanians at every opportunity.


    Aris Bakhtanians - Don't be like this douche (Photo courtesy of Giant Bomb)

    “The sexual harassment is part of the culture. If you remove that from the fighting game community, it’s not the fighting game community… it doesn’t make sense to have that attitude. These things have been established for years.

    “That’s what you’re trying to do to the fighting game community and it’s not right,” Aris continued. “It’s ethically wrong.” This may be the first time in the history of video games that someone had said that removing sexual harassment is ethically unjust.

    “If you were really a member of the fighting game community, you would know that these are jokes,” he said, talking about his racial and sexual humor. The arguments to support this are rambling, bringing in racism and how some people are racist but have friends with different races. “You’re trying to figure out a way to make me wrong, when I’m not wrong,” Aris argued, saying that it’s wrong to try to turn fighting games into something “everyone can enjoy,” or that you can enjoy with your girlfriend or family. “The beauty of the fighting game community, and you should know this - it’s based around not being welcome. That’s the beauty of it. That’s the key essence of it. When you walk into an arcade for the first time, nobody likes you.”


    Needless to say, this didn't sit well with many event goers. Aris didn't stop there though. As one of the female characters lost, Aris defended one of the event-goers who had screamed "bitch" repeatedly and then called for the character to be raped when she lost.

    “What is unacceptable about that?” Aris asked. “There is nothing unacceptable about that. We’re in America! This isn’t North Korea! We can say what we want.”


    But wait, it gets worse. One of the female competitors, Miranda Pakozdi, forfeited her match. The remarks were recorded during the live Twitch.tv broadcast of the event.


    And yet there is still even more where that came from. Day two of the event had more of the same during the broadcast. Kotaku has a trimmed video up that isolates the harassment going on during the three hour show.

    This footage, shot on February 23 and brought to our attention today by an anonymous tipster, shows Bakhtanians shooting some lewd remarks at fellow gamer Miranda "Super_Yan" Pakozdi. He takes control of the camera and spends a whole lot of time focusing it on Pakozdi, who appears to be the only woman in the room. He focuses on her butt and breasts, shooing people away when they block his view. He also makes some comments about her feet and thighs that may seem out of line to, well, anybody.


    Aris later issued a statement via Twitter.

    I understand that I said some controversial statements on the Cross Assault show, and a lot of people are deeply offended with what was said. When I made these statements, I was very heated as I felt that the culture of a scene I have been a part of for over 15 years was being threatened. I unfortunately used extreme examples in the heat of the moment and feel that my statements don’t actually communicate how I feel. This is similar to what people say when they get into an argument with their girlfriend, and they say things that they deeply regret. I sincerely apologise if I have offended anyone. My statements do not reflect those of Capcom or myself. The last thing I want to do is get them in trouble for giving me and the fighting game community the opportunity to have an amazing show like this.

    What I was trying to communicate is that mild hostility has always been a defining characteristic of the fighting game scene. Back when arcades were more prevalent, people didn’t like newcomers, and players needed to fight and pay their dues to get respect. The debate I was in was with a person who supported professional leagues, who have intent to censor the community to make it more accessible. I think the sink or swim mentality is something that defined our culture, and if that succeeds it removes something which has been important to help create some of the best fighting game players of our time. I was unfortunately unable to make this point clearly. Again, I am deeply sorry for offending anyone. This was a combination of the people taking things out of context and my own inability in the heat of the moment to defend myself and the community I have loved for over 15 years.


    As you can see, nowhere in that statement is an apology for what he said and for his actions during the event. Capcom, however, has apologized for what went down during the show. They said that "the views and opinions expressed by cast members in the live internet program 'Cross Assault' do not reflect those of Capcom. As a company, Capcom believes that everyone should be treated with respect. This particular issue was brought to our attention and has been addressed. We sincerely apologize to anyone that was offended by any comments expressed during the show."

    Members of the Shoryuken forums are writing in their support for what Aris said and did, going to great lengths to defend his actions and making their own sexist remarks.

    “For Aris and a lot of other people (mostly guys, but it can include women, too), the fighting game scene is a chance for them to relax and be themselves, away from an insane, politically correct culture,” a member of the Shoryuken forum wrote. “For some guys, being themselves means making mildly lecherous comments or racial jokes. Now, a bunch of idiots are conflating and exaggerating this with actually being racist or sexist. That’s supremely fucking stupid, because they’re not even close to the same.”

    The comments go and on, and very few make for enlightening reading. “I bet money that Miranda wouldn’t have been so offended if Aris was better looking, that is the sad part,” another member wrote."


    To the gaming community who believes this is acceptable behavior from anyone, to Aris Bakhtanians, to the members of the Shoryuken forums supporting Aris: Grow the fuck up.


    (Sources: Giant Bomb, Kotaku, PA Report)
  • Shawn Zipay
    Managing Communities 24/7
    • Apr 2003
    • 69064

    #2
    Also, Aris proposed to a tranny last year



    It's all starting to make sense now.

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    • nemes1s3000

      #3
      What a fucking douche, the dude has a dick for where his head should be. Truth be told, if I were near him during those moments, I'd slap that disgusting beard off of his crumb riddled face.

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      • K-16
        ...
        • Aug 2026
        • 2016

        #4
        Holy crap that's a lot of quoting for a single article! You've really done your homework on this one. GiantBomb, Kotaku, PA Report, wow! Actually you could've cited YouTube and Twitter as well with this wealth of information. Well done. The PAR quote caught my attention too regarding ethics. I know it's my first time hearing how removing sexual harassment is ethically unjust. Anyways, my thoughts on this matter is that he is misunderstood, but at the same time he was retarded enough to be clueless as to WHY he was misunderstood. He sees his actions as dirty jokes that are all in good fun, which by all means, both male and female players participate in for any socialising whether it's gaming related or not. So I agree that's an okay thing to do (where everyone lightens up and not worry about being polite or professional).

        However, I think we can all agree that there is a line (which HAS been brought up and somehow failed to get through to Mr. Bakhtanians) to when repeated ongoing jokes towards someone becomes offensive and bothersome. That line is when the person says STOP... Unfortunately Mr. Bakhtanians proudly jumped over the line and kept sprinting in the wrong direction, giving us all the impression that Rubeus Hagrid here thinks sexual harrassment is the ethical thing to do in a fighting game community (when he actually meant adult jokes and taunting like the WWE).

        Also, technically he did apologize for his actions, as he is sorry for offending people (as he acknowledges that he offended more than just Ms. Pakozdi). By all means, it's a more legit apology than Mr. Christoforo's attempt, but I will agree that there is some angst in his apology as he mixes in defensive comments with his regret (full video footage where you are the star, director, and cameraman does not count as out of context evidence, nor is it exaggerated).

        I'm also dissatisfied how he is stuck in the old society where it is true that many arcades (but not all) functioned as a club-like culture, where newcomers had to prove themselves to fit in (their skill and personality being tested in an initiation test-like environment); those days are gone, where nerds are popular, gamers are less violent and more social, so why encourage a closed environment? It makes no sense! Are private arcade clubs really part of the good ol' days? I hated feeling intimidated walking into a place I would normally enjoy. I can't agree with Mr. Bakhtanians viewpoint on how to nourish the fighting game community with such a closed-off environment...

        If that depreciated culture were to return, we would never get to see that famous Street Fighter 3rd Strike moment; it would only be known to the select few that shun people who aren't part of the fighting game community. Perhaps a fitting punishment for him would be to return him to the good ol' days and shun him from any gaming public event unless he goes through an initiation test that involves verbally abusing him and publically humiliating him on camera. After all, it's only a joke, and if he has thick-skin, we can welcome him back into our "closed environment."

        (Did I really type that much? For craps sakes...)

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        • Eagle101
          Master of Gaming
          • Jun 2007
          • 1198

          #5
          Honestly dont know why i viewewd this article just looking at the guys face makes me want to pick up an auto shotty.

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          • Infernalis
            Yatta
            • Jul 2007
            • 1579

            #6
            Re: Gamers: Don't Be Like this Misogynistic Asshole, Aris Bakhtanians

            K-16 said it all, the guy doesn't want to adapt. For one there's a difference when you're with friends/at home and when you're in public especially something profesionnal, and two we're not in the same era as the old arcade thing.

            Funny article though, I like some Drama from time to time.

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            • K-16
              ...
              • Aug 2026
              • 2016

              #7
              Re: Gamers: Don't Be Like this Misogynistic Asshole, Aris Bakhtanians

              Originally posted by Eagle101
              Honestly dont know why i viewewd this article just looking at the guys face makes me want to pick up an auto shotty.
              Aw... Don't say that... Why would you want to threaten somebody with such a jolly face who can hold his liquor? I mean he's Harry's good friend! Saved his life lots of times! Seriously though, I don't like photographers who deliberately provide shots of people looking like jerks. I prefer to think of journalism that informs the public, rather than force what our first impressions of the person should be. Being manipulated by looking at carefully selected photos makes me feel cheated in terms of unbiased journalism. Don't get me wrong, I know the photo came from Giant Bomb, and it would be a challenge to find pictures of him looking innocent or doing charitable things. I'm just saying I doubt he would look like that when he's in a better mood. Same with Mr. Christoforo. (I know, I know, I saw the videoS too... I know... I'm still giving Mr. Bakhtanians the benefit of the doubt...)


              To everybody else, please read Infernalis' post instead of mine. It hits the exact point I was trying to convey, while mine is tl;dr. I mean, I got bored of reading my own post for craps sake.

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