Remember when you were a kid and you be out playing football or cricket or some other sport. There would always be some spoilt kid who would run home crying and take his ball with him when the game didn't turn out the way he wanted.
FFS - Base rape, Jihadding, RDX bunnyhopping and all the rest is part of the game. If there are people in your base get them out, set up a defence or break through. If you can't do that then you lose end of story. Sticking RDX to the front of your Jeep is a game mechanic. If you're whoring round in the walker and some guy detonated his FAV in between your legs then tough you should have been paying more attention.
Fek off with your bans.